Life is a continous mechanism of change.There are moments when life seems to work out so smoothly and flawlessly.Moments when we feel contented,comfortable and complete.Then, moments come out of no where at us and point dirty fingers and say your things went out of plan.Finally we tend to assume that the worst is yet to come.That is the time where we find very core of pain,sadness and fragmentation.We then leap into erroneous conclusions and decisions.Emotions override us, that instead of facing circumtances, we drown ourselves with resentment and frustrations.In this desperate phase I found it important for us to know the following.
Be blind to the causes of heartbroken and sight locked into that person being cause and quit blame game.Instead remain grateful to him/her despite the feeling of emptiness.View forward inspite of heartbreak.The pain may be hard to erase completely but you have ability to believe that you can move on.
We shed tear out of true and the deepest level of feelings.It is because you cared,you loved and you are hurt finally.But tears that rolled out are never wasted.This are testimony that you are feeling what you are able to feel.
The pinch and crack will remain in our core feeling of heart.But donot let it turn into bitter scar.Instead the gap and briuse should nurse properly and become the very spot where hopes ignite out of personal darkness and shine with something better and more deserving.
Know that everything will not go as expected and planned.Stop to build castle in air and focus on what is possible and compatible.End of relation with him or her doesnot mean a mistake nor end of everything.
Finally it is all paradox of life.Life is bittersweet.Pain and heartache can mould our way in making ourself better person.
(P.S:This is my timeless exploration and not intented to relate any one else)
Photo credit:Tshering Chezom.
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